So you meet this great guy and he’s your dream guy. He’s tall, handsome and smooth. He picks you up in a nice car. You have a great night out. He says come over to my house for a drink and you do. Then he starts making a move and you love the kiss, the touch…everything seems so right. But it’s a first date. Should you go along with this or do you break this up now? For the guys, you meet her and she’s your dream girl out on a dream date with you. Should you make a move for sex now, or wait until you get to know her better?
Having sex on the first date is not a crime as long as you want it. Some however feel that it ruins the chance of developing a relationship, especially if the guy sees the lady as cheap. It is expected in most African cultures that a woman should do “shakara” for the man and show some self-worth. For the guys, making a move at a woman on a first date may make the lady feel that the guy is just desperate for sex and make the lady guarded and wary of the guy’s motives.
Some people however believe that having sex on a first date helps couples bond faster and coupled with the fact that they have seen each other naked and done all this crazy things together, it makes the dating process easier. Let’s not forget that sex on the first date can help you know what you are working with in terms of preference and how your partner can work it. Let us not forget that people have sex after dating for many months and then decide that the sex is not good enough and they cannot continue in the relationship, so why not find out now, right?
When it comes to relationships and dating, there are no rules to matters of the heart. If you are willing to have a fling and not feel bad if he or she does not call the next day, sex on a first date might give you a great night to remember without regrets. For those looking for a long loving relationship and are not open to having a fling, you should probably take some time to get to know your dream guy or girl before having sex. Whatever you do though, always remember to use protection!