and the books that I have read, this might just be the case.
I could go on and on trying to say the same thing. Cunnilingus is an art and like all art, there are skills that need to be mastered, per woman.
Men, please learn to develop the patience that comes with learning to give and receive pleasure (in and out of the bedroom). A satisfied woman is a happy woman and a happy woman never wants to be happy alone.