Key Things Women Want In a Man to Keep a Happy Relationship

Women are just like men. People tend to understand one another when they open up or talk to each other clearly and directly without hidden feelings and thoughts.

The old saying that “men are from Mars” and “women are from Venus” is imaginary. Women are from planet Earth just like men.

It is okay to say that Men make a fuss about not understanding women because they try to read “signs” or look for “hints” with the believe that women are different which makes them to end up with wrong stereotypes and perceptions of women.

Men should adopt listening ears to women to avoid any misconceptions. It’s easy to understand what women want when you listen to them. The ‘signs’ and ‘hints’ you’re looking for, are leading you into self-delusion.

Below listed are the Possible things Women want


What every woman dreams of and wishes is to be loved and cared for. They yearn to feel beautiful and desired. Regardless of her physical appearance or score on the beauty scale, she wakes up each day hoping to draw a man’s attention. Women are wired to feel listened to, watched, pampered and their emotions attended to.


A woman when in her worst expects more than just physical support she expects mental and also emotional support. She looks up to you and counts on you to be around until she can stand back on her own. A woman always hope to have her man’s assistance in terms of financial, emotional and mental support or presence. She always needs someone to lean on.


A woman needs to feel safe. Every woman wants to feel protected around their men and feel like they’re on top of the world. When she stakes her life on you, she expects you to be grateful and keep an eye on her. So when the aliens tend to threaten her space, she trusts you have her back. She expects you’ll be there to grant her emotional security and every other form of security.

Good sex

Women tend to be more sensitive to sex compared to men. Every lady dreams to have a protected, loving and faithful relationship but Good sex cannot be cut out. Just like men women are also emotional creatures. Their emotional tanks get filled-up and thus they expect a good tapping. As a man, you should always be there for her and fill the gap. Of course, you should not be a pro but at least push her pleasure buttons. Make her knees weak once you come on her sight. Make her want you all the time and keep the attraction.

Good Company

A woman wants you to be her best friend. As humans nobody want to be lonely. Every woman wants somebody who is always there for her. She wants you to be her advisor and help her crack worse and difficult problems. Make them laugh and you’ll be the first person she thinks of in the morning and when she retires to bed at night.

A Good Sense Of Humour

People with dry sense of humour are suckers, you literally have to spread yourself too thin, to get along with them. They suck to the bone. A guy that is all fun and exciting to be with is every woman’s dream man all day long. And your sense of humour should stretch in all contexts. If a woman finds you boring and conservative, she will definitely bring your relationship to a halt without hesitating.


Nobody wants to be with people who don’t appreciate them, their efforts and time. Women hope you will adore and freak out on them. It’s every woman’s desire that you’ll hold her hand in public or even lift her up randomly. She will revere your manliness if you take it upon you, and do it. Appreciating a woman is key to a long lasting relationship as she’ll feel special and wanted.

Quick-witted chitchats

Nothing is as annoying as having a drab conversation. Worse is when the person you are talking to, never pauses or takes time to let her/his words settle well in your mind. If you are the type of man, wise-up, and work on your listening skills. A good listener is a very important trait any man should adopt. Women love listening ears. If you listen to a woman attentively, with your phone deep in your pockets, she’ll pour her heart into your soul. If you really want to own her up, man, listen to her even when it’s the hardest thing you can do in a situation.


This trait is a really difficult one for a lot of men. Loyalty is a strong human virtue that can keep relationships for a very long time. In fact, it’s the fuel of all the intact relationships. That said, if you dream of a future with that woman, for heaven’s sake, be loyal. Work hard on your fidelity index. Avoid things and people that’ll lead you to ‘sin’, deceive or play your woman. It is depressing for a lady to always be cheated on and played all the time.


Understanding a woman is the most important of all. It’s a trait every woman wants men to have. When she says NO, try to understand her reasons for that answer and don’t ask too many questions that’ll question your judgment. Ask God for more insights to know your woman’s bad and good days. Just be understanding, it goes a really long way in making your woman happy.

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