Most ladies complain that Nigerian men aren’t gentlemen, the question here is “Are you even a lady”. Just because you’re a woman doesn’t automatically make you a Lady and there are some disgusting things ladies do that make them seem unladylike. For example, if you fall into the Slay queen category then please shift. you ain’t no lady.
That being said here are 4 major things you should stop doing if you consider yourself a lady
1. Cussing: Using nasty words speaks ill of you as a person, it portrays you as a trashy person. As a lady, you are supposed to have some poise as well as patience, so stay away from nasty and cuss words.
2. Wearing skimpy clothes: Even though wearing skimpy clothes have been the order of the day now and it may seem OK at some point in one’s life but when you get to a certain stage in life you need to stay away from skimpy clothes. For example, “when you want to land yourself a career and a good man, you should reserve these outfits for night outings and choose other modest clothing for everything else”.
3. Posting trashy selfies: The selfie trend is not going away anytime soon, and there’s no reason why you shouldn’t be able to put yours on your Facebook page, no matter your age but if you want to be seen as a classy lady, keep the drunken selfies, such as the ones where you aren’t wearing much clothing and similar poses, to yourself and for the love of all that is good, quit with the duck face, it is not at all ladylike.
4. Excessive drinking: Yes, it’s totally fun to go out and have a few drinks with the girls but no lady looks classy when she’s falling drunk. When you are drunk, you say and do things that you won’t do on a normal day and might be embarrassed later when you get sober, it’s not ladylike to get drunk and be saying rubbish. Have your glass of wine, but keep it in check now that you’re a lady.