As we all know, iPhone announced yesterday that their new iPhone 8 and X would be out soon and we all know that the first set of ladies who usually buy them in Nigeria tend to be runs girls or women who have rich boyfriends (or rich uncles aka Sugar daddies). The phone is estimated to be half a million Naira and not every sugar daddy will be willing to drop such an amount for a phone.
If you want your Sugar daddy (or uncle as you ladies tend to call them) to buy you that iPhone before the week ends, follow these four steps below.
1. Timing: Some discussions are appropriate for new relationships. Money and commitment are two topics that couples should discuss immediately after entering into a sugar daddy-sugar baby relationship to ensure that both parties are on the same page. Commitment refers to time as well as loyalty. It is important to know how much time each person can devote to the relationship, and it is also good to know if seeing other people is forbidden for either partner. Conversations involving emotional issues or physical needs are typically best for established couples who have been seeing each other for some time.
2. Approach: Never make demands or ask your daddy for things in a rude tone. Think about how you like to be treated and then model that behaviour. Instead of saying, “Give me more cash or I’m gone”, try something like, “Can we please discuss increasing my allowance?” A little kindness goes a long way when it comes to asking for things that you want.
3. Tactics: Don’t be vague about your request. Explain exactly what you want from your sugar daddy and tell him why. Be honest about the situation to help him understand where you’re coming from. If you’re broke and need money for school, say so. If you already receive a generous allowance but need a bit more for a pedicure or haircut, explain that you’re not feeling as pretty as usual and need some extra financial help. Let your daddy know how you feel and what you consider to be an acceptable solution.
4. Appreciation: Ladies, when your gentleman grants your request, make sure to let him know that you appreciate his help. Thank him immediately after he honours his commitment, and then tell him how lucky you are to have him in your life. Maybe even prepare a little surprise for him. When he feels valued and respected, he is likely to treat you very well. Keep your bond strong to ensure that you both get what you need out of the arrangement