When it comes to Nigerian ladies and flirting i’d like to generalize and say they suck at it, but that might be wrong. Maybe I’ve just been unlucky and i don’t meet ladies who flirt, instead i meet lazy ladies who let me do all the work. That being said, if you happen to fall into this lazy category of ladies who let the guy do all the toasting and flirting, this article is for you. ‘You gon learn today’.
Let’s start with the three key types of flirting.
1. Obvious flirting: Once a guy starts flirting back or tries to get your attention, it’s completely acceptable to start flirting more obviously with him. While subtle flirting may make him wonder if you like him, obvious flirting moves will let him see that you’re definitely interested in him in a more-than-just-friends kind of way.
2. Subtle flirting: If you don’t know a guy too well, always be subtle while flirting with him. He has to know you’re interested in him, but he should never realise you’ve fallen hard for him already.
3. S3xual flirting: Sexual flirting is right there at the top of the flirting ladder. It can be outrageous and overtly sexual, and as long as you’ve built the sexual tension up, it’ll make any guy want to do things to you right there.
You can s3xually flirt with a guy anywhere you like, but as a word of caution, indulge in s3xual flirting only when it’s just the both of you and no one else around. If other guys do see you, s3xual flirting can come off as a slutty thing, and it may not help your goody two shoe image with the rest of the guys.